Degradation Humiliation
Raleigh Dungeon House of Whispers
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Humiliation is the mental feeling that causes embarrassment from things that other people do to you – like having people laugh at you or getting naked in front of others
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Degradation is the physical act when you try to dehumanize someone to a lower standing by making them do something that goes against their values or beliefs such as act like a piece of furniture or lick your boots.
Types of Humiliation:
Verbal refers to a consensual demeaning of the submissive used for embarrassment
Physical physical acts which help a dominant partner assert power over their submissive
Erotic involves verbally or physically humiliating a person during a sexual act. It can be an emotionally intense feeling that causes great source of pleasure for some people
Degradation Examples |
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ask permission to do anything and everything |
Blackmail role play |
Cuckolding- Make the sub watch the Domme having sex with someone pointing out how he’ll never be as good as the other person |
Wear a paper bag over your head |
Good, old-fashioned spanking |
Sleep on the floor |
Forced chastity – roll some dice to see how long you must go without an orgasm |
No longer allowed to use the pronoun “I”, rather a demeaning title like “this slut” |
Face slapped |
Spit on |
Get ignored |
Beg for something |
Hold a sign saying something embarrassing |
Act like a child and get treated accordingly |
Ask salesgirl at makeup counter for recommended lipstick shade. Put on lipstick and go out wearing it |
Take series of embarrasing selfies and Domme will keep pics |
Receive a degrading nickname and answer to it moving forward |
Get Urinated on and have to “wear it” for a while |
Eat off the floor |
Get covered in pudding, whipped cream, condiments, or other sloppy foods |
Wear a slutty French Maid outfit and clean dungeon or house |
Wear high heels |
Dress and act as an animal |
Wear a diaper and suck on a pacifier |
Penis humiliation |
Speaking is not allowed, only grunting or use sign language (in public this is fun) |
Pegging |
Awkward or strange masturbation methods – like humping a pillow or into food |
Eat from a pet bowl or the trash |
Be confined in a cage displayed to the “world” |
Lick the Domme’s boots or heels clean |
Become Our piece of furniture such as footstool, coat rack, or chair |
Eat your own cum after an orgasm |
Write insulting names or phrases on your body with a permanent marker |
Wear nail polish or get mani/pedi |
Shared for sexual gratification with My girlfriends or other kinksters |
Sing a song or dance to a song for Our amusement |
Share something embarrasing about yourself so We can all laugh. |
Sit down to pee for 24 hours |
wear alot of feminine deodorant or perfume for a day |
Shave off or get waxed to remove all body hair |
Wear panties and a bra under your clothes. |
Wear an embarrassing outfit and take a selfie inside Wal-Mart |
Buy a bikini and get a tan while wearing it |
Get tied up outside and left there for a designated period of time. |
Wear a smartphone-controlled sex toy (like a butt plug, cockring, or prostate massager) when you go out and We'll set it off whenever We wish. |
Wear a chastity device under clothes when you go to work |
Go to the grocery store and buy the largest cucumber or eggplant you can find and a bottle of lube |
Force a male sub to wear slutty women’s lingerie (force cross-dressing). |
Go out with no underwear beneath your clothing. |
WHY DO PEOPLE ENJOY HUMILATION AND DEGRADATION?
SLAVE TRAINING – Teaching them to perform certain acts
PUNISHMENTS – Correcting unwanted behavior
PLEASURE – Some people enjoy the act of humiliation or degradation
BDSM GAMES – Adding these as part of a game situation can add an extra layer of chance, anticipation, or anxiety.
Verbal Humiliation Examples | Physical Humiliation Examples | Erotic Humiliation Examples |
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Forcing the submissive to only use animal sounds such as , meow, neigh, oink | Kneeling, kissing feet, eyes and head lowered | Orgasm Control |
Scolding the submissive for being "bad" | Perform specific rituals like greet Dominant when they enter the room in a certain way | Chastity |
Have the submissive speak in a different tone of voice or volume, such as using slutty voice, whispering, yelling | Objectification or human furniture such as footstool, chair, table, ash tray, or toilet | Sexual servitude |
Requiring submissive to request permission before a certain task such as using the bathroom, achieving orgasm, eating, showering, going to bed | Perform acts of servitude such as being a maid, getting everyone snacks or drinks, foot massages | Cuckolding |
Negative comments about the sub's physical appearance or personality such as fat, tiny, ugly, stupid, or racial slurs | Manipulation of the body such as setting a dresscode like forced feminization, wearing only lingerie to bed, pantyhose to work daily, | Small penis humiliation |
Being called derogatory names such as pet, bitch, dog, whore, slut, boy, girl, slave | Particiapting in degrading activities such as being spit, urinated, or ejaculated on | Public nudity |