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Hard Limits and House Rules 

Dominatrix Hard Limits

Professional Dominatrix Raleigh, NC

Just because you want to play with Me and have money does NOT guarantee you a place at my feet. There are rules in place for everyone's safety and discretion. There is a vetting system in place that you must pass before I invite you into my FemDom Estate. I reserve the right to decline service, if I feel we are not a good fit. First impressions matter. 

Dungeon Rules

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  • Showered

  • Body hair shaved off or trimmed down (this means pubic hair)

  • Enema, if anticipating ass play

  • Teeth brushed/ breath check

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Safety

  • Safe words: Red= Stop, Yellow= Slow Down

  • Fantasy vs Reality

  • Take things slow

  • Hard Limits, Triggers, Med Conditions

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Vetting

  • Follow instructions given

  • We'll chat on the phone, email, and/or text

  • Be truthful and honest

  • Respectful and punctual

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Physical Health

  • Medical conditions, restrictions, allergies, medications

  • Be realistic with yourself about your own limitations

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Our Time is Tributed

  • My time is reserved to those who deserve it most and show sincerity through tribute

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Discretion

  • Session will be private

  • No photo or video, unless previously discussed

  • I will message you leading up to our session and then a follow up afterward. Beyond that, you can contact me for another session.

4

Communication

  • Reply promptly when you receive email from me.

  • I will NEVER call you without prior arranged, I expect the same from you

  • If something is wrong, let me know immediately

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Submission

  • You have contacted Me for this, I do not seek out subs.

  • Let go of control; trust is hard, but feeling vulnerable is erotic

  • As a sub, you must learn how to please others, even if it mean enduring discomfort.

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Mental Health

  • PTSD experiences, Triggers

  • Fear, anxiety, excitement

  • Sub drop after session

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Respectfulness

  • I expect to be addressed by correct title and name, "Mistress Windy"

  • You need to listen, not talk. Only reply when I ask you a direct question or if something is wrong

  • Consideration for others and self awareness

House of Whispers Hard Limits

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21+ 

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Medically or Mental Health Instability

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No Farting Fetish

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No Scat Play

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No Sexual Services

2

No Permanent Marks or Injuries

4

No Smoking Fetish

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No Switching

8

Pregnancy

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Dishonesty/ Lying

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